Protocols, policies, procedures and standards of conduct within the A submissives journey Community can be found in this section.  This includes expected protocols in the chat room environment. 

As when visiting any Dominant submissive Lifestyle Community, whether in the online environment, or in real life, you are encouraged to learn the expectations or standards of the community.  We invite you to take the time to at least briefly read thru these postings to better acquaint you with our community.

The A submissives journey (Asj) Community regularly hosts classes and discussions, both online and in real life. These discussions cover all aspects of a power exchange relationship (Dominant submissvive and BDSM).  Pages listed in this category are the text or logs of these classes or discussions.

Dominance and Submission (D/s) is an alternative relationship in which a Master or Dom controls the actions, emotions, and will of the slave, or submissive, often referred to as "sub". D/s does not necessarily refer to the sex act itself. D/s is more akin to a seduction. The Master seduces the slave with his power, the slave seduces the Master with their willingness and servitude.

A D/s relationship consists of two or more people who are mutually consenting adults who agree on a direction for their relationship. They agree that one of the partners will take the dominant, controlling role, and the other partner, the submissive, controlled role. Just like in any other relationship, it is a two way street, though to outsiders, it may not seem so. The Master relies on the slave as much as the slave relies on the Master. They are dependent on each other to satisfy their own needs. Each partner has different needs, as defined by their role as Dom or sub, but each is satisfied, though in different ways. Each couple will have their own set of agreements.  However, there are some basic rules that are universal.

A Domestic Discipline (DD) marriage is one in which one partner is given authority over the other, and has the means to back up that authority, usually by spanking. The application and practise of DD in each marriage is as unique as the individuals who make up that marriage. There is no "One Ring of Power" in the Domestic Discipline world, to which all DD couples must bow; no singular path to "true DD enlightenment". What works well for one DD couple may not be a good fit for another marriage. Therefore, you may see many different suggestions espoused on this site and elsewhere.

A Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD) marriage is simply a traditional, male-led, Christian marriage which utilises aspects of Domestic Discipline. It is set up according to Biblical standards.

Articles and postings in this category are written by our members often sharing their thoughts, ideas and concerns about the Dominant submissive Lifestyle and Power Exchange Relationships.  These articles do not necessasarily reflect the views of the A submissives journey Community. 

It is important to remember that Dominant submissive relationships tend to be very individual and unique.  This section of the Asj Web site is an ideal opportunity for our members to share some of these unique traits or qualities in their relationship.

Generally these works tend to be works of fiction or erotic fantasy involving BDSM,  Dominant submissive or Master slave power exchange relationships.  As such, some of these articles may be rather graphic or intense.  Additionally, as you read some of these postings, remember, they are fiction and some of the actions or methods used or described may not conform to the accepted standards of safe, sane and consensual, nor would such action or behavior necessasarily be condoned by the Asj community.

These articles are generally not uniquely related to the D/s, BDSM or Poly Lifestyle, however they may be of interest to all.

A submissives first responsibility is to herself.  A submissive can not fully serve a Dominant if she isn’t first caring for herself, ensuring she is capable of pleasing her Dominant.   Whether dealing with the complex health, emotional and dietary concerns, or something as simple as their appearance. This area of the A submissives journey Community provides you with articles and discussions to help you understand these issues as well as providing you with helpful hints or suggestions regarding your appearance.

While these articles may be informative and appear to be applicable to you and your specific situation, never hesitate to consult with your doctor or health care professional. Even discussing some of these issues with your Dominant is not a substitute for the advice, guidance and care a health care professional may be able to provide you.

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ[poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. It is not to be confused with polysexuality, which is attraction towards multiple genders and/or sexes.

Polyamory, often abbreviated as poly, is often described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy. The word is sometimes used in a broader sense to refer to sexual or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, though there is disagreement on how broadly it applies; an emphasis on ethics, honesty, and transparency all around is widely regarded as the crucial defining characteristic.

Based on the works of John Norman, these articles are related to the Gorean Lifestyle

These articles are generally of interest to those involved or interested in BDSM activities.  There may be frequent overlap, or applicability to the D/s Lifestyle as well.

BDSM is a term which describes a number of related patterns of human sexual behaviour. The major subgroupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM" itself:

• bondage & discipline (B&D)
• Domination & submission (D&S, Ds, D/s)
• sadism & masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M, SM)

Many of the specific practices in BDSM are those which, if performed in neutral or nonsexual contexts, are widely considered unpleasant, undesirable, or disadvantageous. For example, pain, physical restraint and servitude are traditionally inflicted on persons against their will and to their detriment. In BDSM, however, these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the participants, and typically for mutual enjoyment. Because of this, those who practice BDSM see it as entirely different from sexual abuse.