On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

Domestic Violence in the S/M (BDSM) Comm…

12-07-2011 Hits:750 BDSM Related Articles Jan Hall - avatar Jan Hall

Domestic Violence in the S/M (BDSM)Community Domestic violence is not the same as consensual s/m.  Yet, abusive relationships do exist within the leather-s/m community, as with all groups. Unfortunately, due to...

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Back on track...

11-07-2014 Hits:305 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

    Summer is over in the Northern Hemisphere and with that, it’s time to get ourselves back on track!  Asj’s hosted classes and discussions will be resuming their normal schedule!  A...

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From the Asj Library

Parenting in a D/s Household

26-02-2011 Hits:701 D/s Lifestyle Topics Asj - Not Stated - avatar Asj - Not Stated

BDSM 101 - Parenting in a Dominant-Submissive Household I have read quite a few questions with regards to parenting in a BDSM household. Most of these households have one submissive and...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Asj has long recognized the various styles or forms of Power Exchange Relationships.  Included in these is the Gorean (Gor) lifestyle.  Although originally based on a series of science fiction books by John Norma, modified a bit to allow for reality, Gor is a very viable form of the Lifestyle, both online and off.  Gor is considered to be a very black or white type structure, filled with protocols, traditions and rules.  It is also considered to be very sensual.  A girls obedience and loyalty in Gor is considered to be absolute. Asj’s Gorean Community is referred to as “The Sanctuary Vidrew” (SV).  If your interest is towards Gor, we invite you to visit the Gorean sections in the Library and to visit the SV Chat Room. 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

In BDSM different toys may have different purposes than you might think at first guess.  As an example, most would think a ‘gag” is obviously for silencing a girl.  Did you know a ‘Ball Gag’ actually isn’t very useful to silence a submissive/bottom?

 

A ball gag's purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result.

 

As you begin to use various toys, try to learn a little bit about them and how they are best used before you use them.

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