On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

What is Aftercare

08-04-2011 Hits:861 BDSM Related Articles angel_thigh_high - avatar angel_thigh_high

What is Aftercare by angel_thigh_high   What is aftercare and why is it so important? Aftercare is the time taken after the  scene that brings  the sub back to  the top out of...

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The New Asj Calendar

23-09-2014 Hits:349 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

Something new...  you may notice we've added a new feature on the Asj web site!  It's been a long time in the works, but we've finally added a calendar.  I'm...

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From the Asj Library

Online Knowledge versus Offline Reality

25-03-2011 Hits:646 D/s Lifestyle Topics dove - avatar dove

Online Knowledge versus Offline Reality I am what one could call an "online graduate".  I discovered the lifestyle when I fell into a BDSM chat room.  I had no clue what...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Asj has long recognized the various styles or forms of Power Exchange Relationships.  Included in these is the Gorean (Gor) lifestyle.  Although originally based on a series of science fiction books by John Norma, modified a bit to allow for reality, Gor is a very viable form of the Lifestyle, both online and off.  Gor is considered to be a very black or white type structure, filled with protocols, traditions and rules.  It is also considered to be very sensual.  A girls obedience and loyalty in Gor is considered to be absolute. Asj’s Gorean Community is referred to as “The Sanctuary Vidrew” (SV).  If your interest is towards Gor, we invite you to visit the Gorean sections in the Library and to visit the SV Chat Room. 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

In BDSM different toys may have different purposes than you might think at first guess.  As an example, most would think a ‘gag” is obviously for silencing a girl.  Did you know a ‘Ball Gag’ actually isn’t very useful to silence a submissive/bottom?

 

A ball gag's purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result.

 

As you begin to use various toys, try to learn a little bit about them and how they are best used before you use them.

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