On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

BDSM Checklists

26-03-2013 Hits:1256 BDSM Related Articles Sexperts - avatar Sexperts

  For those new to the world of BDSM, or even those (like me) who are not new, but have never done a checklist, I am proud to show you the...

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Member Holiday Gift

22-11-2014 Hits:66 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

  The Christmas Holiday is rapidly approaching.  Here at Asj, Santa's subbie elves are all busily scurrying about preparing a special Holiday gift for some of our special Gold Members.      On Thursday...

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From the Asj Library

How To Use a Condom in a Pool

29-03-2012 Hits:667 D/s Lifestyle Topics Norman Bailey - avatar Norman Bailey

Although it may sound romantic and exciting, underwater sex is not really a good idea. Not only is it illegal to indulge in this activity when in public pools or...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Asj has long recognized the various styles or forms of Power Exchange Relationships.  Included in these is the Gorean (Gor) lifestyle.  Although originally based on a series of science fiction books by John Norma, modified a bit to allow for reality, Gor is a very viable form of the Lifestyle, both online and off.  Gor is considered to be a very black or white type structure, filled with protocols, traditions and rules.  It is also considered to be very sensual.  A girls obedience and loyalty in Gor is considered to be absolute. Asj’s Gorean Community is referred to as “The Sanctuary Vidrew” (SV).  If your interest is towards Gor, we invite you to visit the Gorean sections in the Library and to visit the SV Chat Room. 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

In BDSM different toys may have different purposes than you might think at first guess.  As an example, most would think a ‘gag” is obviously for silencing a girl.  Did you know a ‘Ball Gag’ actually isn’t very useful to silence a submissive/bottom?

 

A ball gag's purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result.

 

As you begin to use various toys, try to learn a little bit about them and how they are best used before you use them.

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