A submissives journey - A Bit about CJ

A submissives journey

Chapter 1
The Asj Community

Chapter 2
Resource Information

Chapter 3
Subbie's Couch

Chapter 4
The Dom's Lounge

Chapter 5

The Library

Chapter 6
BDSM

Chapter 7

Useful Links

Chapter 8
Members share their thoughts

Chapter 9

Members Only

Chapter 10
Asj's Site Index

Chapter 11
Asj's Book Store

Chapter 12
Recommended Reading List

Chapter 13
Asj slave, sub Registry

Who is CJ ?

Welcome to My little spot on the Asj website!

Just to dispel any rumors, no, I'm not a "bot".. I'm really a person that exists. I've recently ended My career working for a rather large organization (yes, I'm sure you've heard of them). My career field, computers and communications (yes, I hate computers!)

My interests are varied, among other things I'm a helicopter pilot with over 10,000 hours of logged flight time. I enjoy traveling, near or far, but My favorite get-away has to be the islands of St Marten or St John in the Caribbean. There's always pleasure to be found in reading a good book and I'm an avid reader. Don't forget My interest in photography, I enjoy taking pictures, especially of a pretty girl and yes, I've done a lot of My own developing although time won't permit that at the present. I enjoy history so don't be surprised when I prefer the History Channel over the Playboy Channel.

At times, when real life doesn't interfere, I tend to spend some long hours online, so I'm not that difficult to find to chat with.

My interest in D/s first surfaced way back in the late 60's.. careful, I'm telling My age here.... Back then, the only name they had for this was "another horny teenager"... The first slave I had r/t 24/7 didn't even know she was a slave, nor did I. We did what felt was right to us and it worked and worked well.

Over the years I've come to meet a lot of people, both online and off. If you've run into Me online before, you've probably had the opportunity to see that yes, there are some people that strongly disagree with My philosophy on the lifestyle, My way of doing things, but you've also probably seen a far greater number that support My beliefs and the way I do things. I've spent time in the Gor lifestyle both online and real life. Yes, I enjoy some of the things about the Gor lifestyle, but I'm not into the excessive humiliation and abuse of a girl in the lifestyle. Bottom line, I've got My own style and feelings of what this lifestyle is all about just as I believe you should. To that extent, I am accountable to no one but My maker. I demand obedience, respect and trust from a girl, but at the same time, the girl is not a doormat to be used and abused. I am 'poly', so don't let that surprise you. I don't tolerate many of the idiots found online, constantly trying to harass or abuse a girl, all in seeking a bit of cyber sex. I have no qualms stepping up to one of these idiots and putting them in their place.

Lifestyle interests, I only claim to be a Dom although I have been privileged to have had the title of "Master" bestowed on Me by three separate real life organizations. Imagine My surprise when one of these organizations titled Me as a "Grand Master". I frequently serve as a host or moderator for lifestyle gatherings, including munches, play sessions and other get-togethers.

If you find yourself in a conversation with Me about the lifestyle, it will soon become apparent to you exactly what My feelings about this lifestyle are all about. Just because I don't enjoy something or participate in it doesn't mean it's wrong for everyone. Remember, this lifestyle is something unique for each of us.

I've rambled enough, if you'd like to know anything else about Me, just ask. Drop Me an e-mail or look for Me online.. ask around, someone is sure to have seen Me and can relay a message.
I look forward to hearing from you.

As always, I remain,

Yes, good bad or indifferent, this is Me, :)

Oh, talk about scarey, this is Me too..

Questions about our site? Click the ask live icon to chat live or leave a message with our site host. CJ isn't always available, but generally you can find Him here from about 8:30 - 11:00 pm Eastern time. Your questions about the site, the Asj community or just about the lifestyle in general are always welcome. If nothing else, take a moment and tell us what you think of this feature!