A submissives journey

How is breast bondage developed?

The objects of breast bondage is to enhance the look of the assets for the dominant, focus the vision of the submissive on the objects being enhanced, and to provide stimulation directly to the breasts to focus the feelings of the bondage recipient on the assets, and their state of submission or stimulation.

Is Breast Bondage for a short time, or for long duration?

Breast bondage can be for an intense short time, or a less intense longer period often lasting hours.  The duration of the bondage must be taken into mind when choosing the technique, as well as the material to be used, and the tension, or tightness imposed.  Breasts should never become blue, or become numb.  Tightness, swelling, and redness are common. Some discomfort can be expected in the early stages of exploration.  Remember, different women have different sensitivity to various areas of their breasts.  Some have very sensitive nipples and areola, others do not.  Similarly the supporting heavy tissue in some is sore, and easily bruised, while others can take a lot of 'attention'.  The dominant needs to explore each new submissive carefully, in the beginning.

Do you do breasts, or just nipples, or both?

There are almost an infinite variety of things you can do with the nipples, and others that deal with the breasts themselves.  I will concentrate here on the breasts.  Feel free to add clamps, rings, bows, or clothespins after, to your personal taste <grin>. 

What kind of materials do I need to do this?

The materials will depend on the effect being sought, the size and flexibility of the breasts, and the technique being used. It is common to use braided ropes of polyester, or cotton, or silk.  Also leather thongs , silk ribbon, twine, light wire, or saran wrap are useful in other situations.  Finally, in some cases, tensor bandages, or elastic wrap, or light chains are suitable for some, but not all techniques.

How do I choose what type and material to use?

Remember that you are out to accomplish some combination of three things.  The look to the dominant, of neat, tidy, tight, and good presentation of the naked breast to his/her easy use and access.  Second, the visual effect from the subs point of view, where they know they are controlled, and being constrained and presented by their dom/me for some purpose entirely outside of their control.  And thirdly, the bondage is designed to provide sensory feedback to the sub to stimulate them either subtly, or intensely, and reinforce the knowledge that they are being prepared for their doms imminent use.  Where the bondage is being used as a longer term continued stimulation to get her stimulated and keep her aroused, it is prudent to select something that looks good, and can last for hours, without the need to adjust things for safety purposes.

Can breast bondage be done by the sub herself, alone?

There are a few techniques which can be done by the submissive to her own breasts, without help (self bondage).  There are several more complex techniques which require the masters hands to accomplish. It is intriguing for the master to watch her bind herself for her dom/mes pleasure and enjoyment, and to a tension and constriction which the sub feels they can handle.

So what are the Techniques?

Type 1 - Breast Circling/Cinching

This type is suitable for ladies with a C or D cup breast shape. While bending slightly forward, the sub puts her hands behind her back so the dom can work on the breasts one at a time. Using a 1/4 inch or 3/16 inch rope or ribbon, or leather thong, wrap two turns around the base of the breast, and snug up carefully.  Use a square knot on other non-slip knot. Run at least two more turns around that breast, and tie off the running end of the thong with an overhand knot.  Repeat for the second breast. You can tie the running ends together behind her back to lift and separate the breasts, or use another short length to fasten them close together.  If this type of tie is used, and done too tightly, there will be some discomfort, and the need to monitor the color and sensation in the breast, on a regular basis.

Type 2 - Two Rope Cinching

In this type, use one rope of about 1/2 inch diameter, about 20 feet long.  Start by putting the rope behind her while she has her arms raised and her hands clasped behind her neck. bring the two loose ends to the front, and make sure they are the same length.  Get the sub to lift the breasts, while you cross the two rope ends under the breasts, high up on the ribcage.  Pass the ends around her chest and back behind her again.  You now have two wraps under breasts.  Let the breasts back down, and bring the ropes around, under her armpits, but over her breasts. take the now shorter ends around to the back, and tie them off with square knots, where she cant reach them to untie them.. 

Next, take a much smaller rope, ribbon, or twine, 1/8 inch, and at the left side of the left breast, take the short rope and place it under the two larger ropes.  Tie a square knot, tightly on the two ropes, bringing them together.  Now wind and lace the little rope around the two big ropes, in the direction of the nipple.  This will draw the two (four actually) bigger ropes together, and tighten the ropes on the breast.  Do this on the right side of the right breast, to balance, and cinch on that side.  If you are feeling cruel, get another short rope, and tie/cinch the four big ropes at the point between her breasts,... and lace until tight enough to get her attention.

Type 3 - Rope Bra

In this type, you need a 30 foot rope, of about 3/8 or 5/16 diameter, and soft braided type.  Like the previous type, run the rope behind her first, and run the first two wraps under her breast, high on the ribcage.  On the second wrap, run the ropes between her breasts, and finish above her breasts and under the arms. In the back, knot the two ends together and around the first two wraps.  This will put the knot in the middle of the back.  Take the running ends over her shoulders, on either side of her neck, and bring them down between her breasts.  Tie a knot between her breasts, then take the loose ends around behind her, under the breasts.  Run the loose ends around the back and under her armpit, then over her shoulder on the other side of her neck.  Do this for both sides.  Tie the ends of the ropes off in the middle of the back.  The breast will be accentuated and surrounded by the ropes, but no pressure is applied.  This can be done to any size or shape breast.  You can secure the crossing points of the ropes with small lacing, if the bondage is desired to last for several hours, or if you want to tighten up the tension around her breasts.

Type 4 - Presentation Rope Shelf

In this type you need at least a 1/2 inch rope, braided polyester preferably.  You will need about 50 feet, depending on the chest size of the sub.

Start by taking a 12 inch bend of rope at one end.  Place it vertically in the center of her back, at her breast level.  Run the rope around her once, and place the wrap over the vertical loop, to hold it in place.  The wrap is under her breasts, about 3 inches below the breast.  Make three more wraps around her chest, getting higher and higher each time.  The fourth wrap should be snug under her breasts.  Adjust now as necessary. 

The second level of three wraps will lie on top of the base four wraps. In the back the vertical loop is still visible, and accessible.  The three wraps will be snubbed up just under her breasts.  The third level of wraps goes on top of the second, and more snugly under the breasts.  The final wrap is brought around to the back, and inserted into the top or the vertical loop, and the dangling end of the loop is pulled to snug the loop against the wraps, and then the dangling end is tied off to the running end, in the middle of the back.  The effect is to create a tight shelf of rope, under the breasts to force them out on a shelf, on display, and easy access for floggings, stroking, touching, or other activities.  This looks great under a sweater too.<grin>

Type 5 - Japanese Rope Harness

This type is more complex.  Take a 50 foot rope., and make a 10 foot bend in one end.  12 inches from the bent end, tie a double overhand knot. make four more knots, one every 16 inches.  Take the knotted end and open the first loop, and place the subs head in it. It will be a loose loop sitting on her shoulders.  The second knot will probably rest under her breasts, the third on her lower abdomen near her navel, or lower.  Have her spread her legs, and bring the loose ends of the ropes between her legs.  Bring the loose ends up the middle of her back, and tie the loose end to the rope at the back of her neck.  The harness will be relatively loose at this stage , so don't worry about her not getting enough stimulation,..yet.

You now have one running end with about 30 feet of rope to play with.  You are starting from the back at the neck level. Run from there under the arm to tie loosely to the rope above the breast, then back around the back, and attach to the same rope loop, but from the other side.  As you tighten the ropes to the sides, the loops will get shorter, and wider, and the tension on the crotch rope will get tighter :)

Go from the above breast loop, to the below breast loop, and then from the tummy loop to the back near the buttocks loop.  As you adjust the lower loops, and increase the tension, be sure to open her lips, and insert the two ropes securely between her lips.  How tight is up to you.

For the breasts, finish off by tightening the chest loops, and cinching up the under and over breast loops.  Looks good and gets her attention, etc.

Type 6 - Breast Binder

This type of tie can be uncomfortable, depending on the tension, and type of material.

In this we are essentially squashing the breasts against the chest, to make them smaller, but in doing so, increases the pressure on the breasts.  Start with the bandage wrap. saran wrap, or rope UNDER the breast, then wrap around her twice, then start wrapping above the breasts, downwards.  Finish as snugly as desired.  The tighter done, the more important for close monitoring and attention.  Finish off in the back, so she cant get at the knots..

Enjoy, have fun, be careful, and remember to use your imagination.