BDSM - Spanking for Everyone
A submissives journey
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other
forms of swatting is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial
positioning of the participants. While some spankings are
haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of
positioning. Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that
facilitate and enhance the spanking. The spanker enjoys the
following advantages from their position:
Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned
to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing
their arms at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy
spanking with ease and apply swats to the intended target with
force. While standing, the spanker can not only swing their arm
but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously
awaiting, clenching derriere. Except for the notable exception of
their backside, I think it’s important that the spankee be
relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being
inflicted upon their posterior.-
The spanker’s position gives them the “upper hand” and
allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand
higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and
situate the spankee.
Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking and signals the beginning of the spanking, thus building anticipation.
Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control
and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They may
have difficulty removing their rear from the line of fire if they
try.- Inability to clench. When standing, one can clench their
cheeks together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure.
When properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks
and the spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.A
properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more
completely on the sensitive “sit spot”.
Finally, being put over the knee is a childish,
humiliating posture. Having to “assume the position” is
humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that they are
being spanked.
Spanking positions would be sexy even
to people not into spanking. A properly
positioned bottom is fully exposed with the cheeks are fully
presented and split, their undersides turned up. In the case of
men, the anus and back of scrotum show. Women are even more
exposed. This fact is not lost on said person. Therefore, the
spankee feels they are willingly “sticking it out”and presenting
it for its punishment. The spankee knows their bottom cannot evade
or escape the swats.
Speaking from the point of view of an admitted
bottom-fancier, there a few times that someone looks more adorable
and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to be spanked. Not
only is the bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering
shape and sexily perked out.
Because the spanker is in the position to easily
spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is
much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.
Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort
in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of
course, this can be disconcerting if they know they will be
spanked with even more abandon.-
Following are descriptions of various positions that I
find erotic, their distinguishing characteristics, tactics that
can be used to enhance them, and precautions to take. All
descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.
The author then goes on to enumerate
and explain the various positions for satisfying spankings:
Over the lap or knee; Hands on ankles; On hands
and knees; Over a barstool or horse; Lying on bed; Kneeling in
chair.
Readjustment & Verbal Instruction
It’s important to position and adjust the
spankee prior to the first swat. Emphasis should be placed on
positioning and presenting the bottom fully. Therefore, verbal
communication is necessary throughout the spanking to
encourage the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.
Revised: November 06, 2016